Ungratefulness

Greed is a part of human nature. We cannot deny it. We always want what we don’t have physically, mentally, spiritually. In spite of what we already have, we are never grateful for what we have. We humans always wish what others have. Even when we get it we wish to have more. We always want more and more, after not getting what we want another factor takes place. The factor of “Jealousy”. We start getting jealous of others, of their qualities beside of praising them, we cross our line and do things to ruin their life.

Allah has made us flawless, we just have to realize that. To know how important we are but we are not happy with our features, abilities and social background. Sometimes we just don’t realize that what we call our flaws are actually our individuality, variety and uniqueness. We want what we like in others, besides the fact that we should appreciate it and ought to accept what we have. If someone is successful we should support them not being competitive.

Want satisfaction in your life?

Adore what you have! 90% of your problems will be solved by itself. By making demands of what we don’t deserve, we only make our life hell . Everybody gets what they deserve. We have and will get what we deserve and what is best for us. Stop crying for something that is unworthy. Ungratefulness is a disease and one should not own it at any cost.

Allah has mentioned in Holy Quran
” And he gives you all that you ask him and if you count Allah’s favors you will not be able to number them , Most surely man is unjust , Very Ungrateful ” .

How I Changed !

People have different inspirations , some change by a tragedy , some by a phase , some by time but i was changed by a book . Its not my favorite book but its one of my favorites . Its name is “Jannat Kay Pathay” by ‘Nemrah Ahmed’ . i wasn’t a saint but that book gave me a hope that could be one . The book’s lead character Haya , i could see myself in her . It was like the book was written for me .
She gave me the power to face and change . It was hard but not that much as i thought it would be . Before i was a rebellious person , the one who doesn’t care about anything . I barely used to offer my prayers . I was a depressed person . Depressed without any reason . After Imam Sahab taught me Quran , I never touched it again . I wanted to become an artist , i used to sing . I was a music freak , who used to keep record of each underground band .
I used to do each and everything that was prohibited by our deen . I had a small in my heart which sometimes tired to wake me up but that never really worked . My heart wasn’t yet fully sealed . Than a friend of mine suggested me this book and I’m obsessed with books , so i can read any kind of book . So i started this book .

As i was reading it … i was changing along with it . By the time i finished it . I wasn’t myself , I was someone a part of me always wanted to become . I was different , happy and serene . I finally found peace in my prayers . I was reading Quran with all my heart . I didn’t bare any kind of hardship as normally girls face when they start doing Niqaab . Even i made it easy for some girls , who wanted to do it but couldn’t dare to do so , And Alhamdulillah i feel blessed for that 🙂

محبّت کیا ہے ؟

     محبّت ایک بہت پاک لفظ ہے . جس کے معنی بہت کم لوگ جانتے ہیں . یہ وہ احساس ہے جو دنیا کے ہر جاندار کے دل میں ہے . یہ جذبہ اس پوری کائنات پر غالب ہے مگر افسوس آج کل اس کی اہمیت کم ہوتی جا رہی ہے . یہ وہ احساس ہے جو خود پیدا نہیں ہوتا بلکہ ہوجاتا ہے .اس مرض کی کوئی دوا نہیں مگر یہ ہر مرض کی دوا ہے .لوگ کہتے ہیں کے محبّت دھوکہ دیتی ہے مگر یہ غلط ہے محبّت نہیں بلکے محبّت کرنے والے دھوکہ دیتے ہیں . یہ تو ایک پاکیزہ رشتہ ہے جسے توڑنا چاہو تو نہ ٹوٹے … بھولنا چاہو تو بھول نہ پاؤ .
یہ وو شے ہے جو انسان کو جینا سیکھا دیتی ہے ، بیمار میں جان ڈال دیتی ہے ، ہنسنا ، مسکرانا سیکھا دیتی ہے . مشکلات می حوصلہ دیتی ہے . یہ امید کی کڑی ہے . امیدوں کو حوصلوں کو بڑھاوا دیتی ہے . محبّت انسان کے وجود می رچی بسی ہے اسے کوئی خود سے الگ نہیں کر سکتا . بس کوئی اپنے اندر اس خوبصورت جذبے کو پہچانتا تو کوئی اس سے ناآشنا ہوتا ہے اور زندگی کو نفرت ک دھویں میں جلا بیٹھتا ہے . کسی کو اس کی قدر کا احساس ہوتا ہے تو کسی کو نہیں … اور جو قدر نہیں کرتے ، محبّت ان کی قدر نہیں کرتا اور انھیں دربدر کی ٹھوکریں کھانے کے لئےچھوڑ دیتا ہے .
الله تعالیٰ اپنے بندوں سے بے حساب محبّت کرتا ہے اور جو لوگ الله کے بندوں سے محبّت کرتے ہیں وہ  صدا کامیاب رہتے ہیں  !!

I wrote this when i was in 10th grade … today found this in my old stuff today , so thought i should share it with you guys 🙂 do tell me if you like it !!