All You need to know about Sneaky Zeekee!

Hey, hey, hey! You guys are really missing out! We are circulating this hot new profile review that people are talking about these days. He is no other than the 18 year old from Karachi (Pakistan) called Zeerak Khan!

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We didn’t know much about him ourselves so our crew went and asked him a few questions. We learned about him from his role in Vital Tea’s add which went on air quite recently. So here is what he has told us about himself!

How it all began

“I’ve always been very hyper and wanted positive attention. Since I was a kid, I had this passion for making people laugh or entertain them. I’ve generally always had a comedic personality.

Fast forward to the age of 12, life changed and soon I realized that I need to get on my feet. So I pursued my talent as a profession”. (Zeerak Khan)

At the age of 16, Zeerak decided that showbiz was where his heart was leading towards. He started out professionally by seeking out opportunities at various studies in Karachi like Oriel entertainment, Rematch studios, Arts Council Theatre Academy and more!

Embarking on the Journey

He has worked as a voice actor, script writer, host, model, and a motion capture actor!

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This isn’t all! Zeerak has a knack for cosplaying as well! Zeerak has been seen at many anime cons in Karachi dressed up like Spiderman, The Joker, Quick Silver, and many more! He apparently is a better makeup artist than the women out there.

 

But of course, when we practically think about it, this all isn’t easy.

“My Father wanted me to be a tennis player. It’s a family sport. I personally love and respect it with all my heart but I knew this wasn’t for me. This isn’t who I wanted to be.

Sure, my parents had odd thoughts, but I am proving myself to them with hard work as my talent is slowly shining. My parents say, do anything that keeps you happy and stable.”

It’s all in the package of being human. To achieve, something, you have to risk it all and the fact that we are creatures of emotion, prejudice, motivational pride and vanity; the rock threaded path towards success only becomes more challenging.

“Every profession starts with high hopes leading towards failure, leading towards learning; which makes you get back up. You see; if you keep on regretting, you can’t go further. And if you’re always satisfied, there’s no point. The pain, the struggle the mixed feelings are there for a reason! Proving life is up and down and not always on one side.”

 

The Goal

Zeerak eyes are set on becoming a succesful actor, director, artist and a good person too! He keeps character in high regard and this what’s most likeable about him. Apart from good luck, you probably have got a hint that he has a charming personality. More that using his passion for money and fame, he intend to leave a positive impact on his fans!

“There’s a lot that I want people to know, All I can say is the kind of visionary and artist i am i like to bring more fresh ideas and I’d advise big people to give the little people chances to shine, that’s how it works, the ones waiting in line for ages who polished themselves better than anyone deserve the shot. I personally made my ‘Sneaky Zeekee’ page on Facebook to show my creativity to show the ideas and how people with no resources but only ideas can shine! And that is what I am trying, and I personally advice everyone no matter how big or good you are, criticize in a way you set fire, not bury them. And also, whatever you choose to do, make sure you have fun Otherwise what’s the point?!”

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Pretty inspiring; huh? Well that’s Zeerak Khan for you! There is a lot to this kid that we can write about. Acting seems more of an outlet to express all that he has caged it that he wants to show, tell and teach the world. That’s where his ultimate aim is worth mentioning:-

“I want to help, to cause good as much as I can. Even as much as saving a little child and tell them that the world is not over, giving hope, willing to sacrifice to save everyone. Learning, teaching, exploring, trying to prove the same old things like how good will always beat evil…”

Digital Youth of Pakistan

Digital media is rapidly changing lives of people, influencing the youth all around the world. Providing a platform to showcase their talent and productivity. The new digital media has provided the place where you can live a second life doing what you want pursuing to be the person you always wanted to be. This digital world might be blamed for keeping people in a delusion of having a new life but at the same time it has its positive side, it has explored the creative side our youth has to them about which parents usually fail to recognize. In Pakistan where you are normally supposed to become a doctor or engineer and pursuing your passion related to arts, a subject is something rare, there are only a few people who turn their passion into their profession.

Social networking websites like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and WordPress are the platforms which have a big role in becoming the stage for the youth of Pakistan who has a different side to them besides their normal day life. They are the people who have taken advantage of these social websites and have achieved success through these platforms and build their careers with high paying through their accounts. These websites have pushed the youth to break their boundaries and utilize their creativity. These rising stars showcase their Photography, writings, poetry, paintings and many other creative concepts through the new medium portals.

Here are the 7 Pakistani passionate youngsters who transformed their dreams into reality through the digital media.

Ibrahim Zauq
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Ibrahim Zauq is a 22-year-old young undergrad student of Space Sciences hailing from Peshawar. Who within no time gained popularity over Instagram with his skills of photography and videography. “Four years ago when I was in 11th grade, I had a little idea that I have liked photography and then a friend suggested Instagram to me. The rest is hard work, experiments, self-learning and passion.” Says Ibrahim.

His passion includes travel, film-making, and photography but as the all the youngster of Pakistan Ibrahim is also studying something else, which he thinks is an obstacle “but I am still pursuing my passion and working online.”

Another important thing is his captions which are usual in an unusual way, that compliment his pictures well and shows another side of Ibrahim.

“I have learned many things about photography and videography and I do professional work too which I have learned on my own while working in this field. I have found confidence and skill to compete at different levels and competitions,” claims Ibrahim.

“My family could not understand my passion for film-making and photography so they did not support my choice of pursuing this as my studies and career. Hence I am not where I should have been.”

“My family is not stopping me now from my passion while I am doing it alongside my studies. The appreciation and acknowledgment from friends, fans other people in the society have been very supportive to me.” Zauq Further exclaims.

With 7k followers, Zauq has one of the ruling photography accounts on Instagram.
Khadija Kiran
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Khadija Kiran is an arts and craft blogger at WordPress from Islamabad, she also has a Master’s degree in Education along with Post graduate diploma in Textile & Fashion Design. “I think I am good in making things easier to others by explaining. So I tried to polish my teaching skills.” Says Khadija. She started her blog in 2010 by the name Creative Khadija.

“I started a blog for sharing my art but later I realize I should be sharing art tutorials instead. Now it’s been 7 years I am blogging & sharing my crafts tutorials. Luckily, I am Pakistan’s only craft blogger who is sharing art & crafts regularly since 2010.” Says Khadija.

She is one of the professional bloggers of Pakistan, who proved that you can earn while sitting at home. “Blogging was a passion at the start but later it turned into a profession. I started selling my art projects & than tutorials post too. With the passage of time, my blog ranked well in Google. So I was contacted by some good brands to spotlight their shops/ business via my blog & social media networks. This is how I started earning through my blog & business online step by step.” Claims Khadija.

Kiran is one of the risk takers who took the initiative to work online when the platform wasn’t known enough. “Sometimes things work for us in a different way but we realize later. As I am Masters plus B.Ed. but even after A grades, I was unable to find a good job as an art teacher in any school. So I thought to give it a try online. Today I am thankful that I was not able to get any job. Otherwise, this online venture might not be a part of my life.”

Kiran talks about her hardship exclaiming that “Like every other business or job, I too faced a lot of obstacles. But by the grace of Almighty, everything fixed well with time. As a blogger, I was the first ever blogger of my family & in friends’ circle. Nobody was familiar with the word “Blog” even. I can’t ask anyone for help then. I learn each & everything by my own. From blog design to blog SEO, from photography to writing skills etc. 7 years back there was not social media networks influence as much as it is today. Big bloggers never share their tips & tricks with newbies as well. Google was the only helping hand. Besides blogging in online business, I face issues like shipping matters of products, the Payment system for international clients as PayPal is not working in Pakistan yet. And one big thing, there are a very few people in Pakistan who understand the importance of Art. Mostly thinks it’s just an activity to pass some time. Even at the start, my family was not appreciating me at what I am doing but later when they saw me doing great successfully, then they finally appreciate.”

As Khadija talks about opportunities she explains “Alhamdulillah there are a lot of ventures I have successfully done. I am always open for opportunities, my major field is blogging, arts making & selling along with brands marketing through my online influence. But I grab other opportunities on & off as well. I have been working with a British Fashion Designer for a Lehnga design project. I did some fabric painting project for a local brand. I also sold my designs for ceramics printing in the USA. Besides artwork, I am into digital marketing, I had a project with an online marketplace where I spotlighted their store on 50+ Pakistani blogs. I sold my crafts making tutorials to an international magazine too. Besides Pakistani magazines, I have been published & featured internationally in 100+ magazines, E-books,
websites & forums etc. I had a project with Europe’s best crafts network where I was featured as Crafty City Guide from Pakistan.”

“To be very honest, When I started blogging, my family was not appreciating my art, they suggest me to find any day job & better stay busy there instead of sitting in front of computer screen. Even I thought to stop this online venture few times but an appreciation of my wonderful readers worldwide keep me continuing all this successfully.” Says Khadija explaining the hard times of her career.
Fajar Ajmal
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Fajar Ajmal is an Activist, Motivational Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Blogger, Poet and founder of Voice Up. She is also a member of Pakistan National Youth Assembly and Human Rights Commission of Pakistan. She lives in Lahore and studies at Kinnaird College for Women, Lahore. She is the first Pakistani young female who took the initiative to raise awareness about Transgender and Intersex in Pakistan.

“when I started my work, I started writing articles and requested several magazines to publish them or to consider them. They said that these are very bold topics and no one even knows about intersex and its very inappropriate as it had the word ’sex’ in it, and it’s surprising that you are approaching this subject being a girl, as many people are against it.” Says Fajar.

“When I couldn’t find a proper platform I thought, why not create one for myself. I made a blog and started raising my voice there.” States Fajar.

Talking about her obstacles Fajar explains, “The first obstacle was that people were strictly against it and more repulse was there because I was a girl. The second one was that I had no support. Another reason for no support was that people didn’t know what to do or how to act regarding this topic. There was no support from my family either. And it was hard for people to accept that what I’m saying and if presenting it is actually right. It was hard because it was a new thing, and without any knowledge people only portray and visualize it as negative and ask if one is okay in their senses. I bore all of this for three days and out of nowhere, I clicked this link of 13 incredible geniuses of Pakistan, and my name was there, on the top of the list.”

Talking about her opportunities Fajar states, “With time I got recognition.  And then obviously, when I got recognition, the behavior and attitude of people towards me. More ways started to opening up and the hurdles decreased. I had various opportunities to grab. My career started just from writing online. People say the internet has many disadvantages but if one uses it with the right mind and motive, you can touch the sky. My links with so many renown people were built up due to the internet and my struggle by using it. Internet gave me the platform that none did. Many politicians have already approached me that they want to work with me and help me with this initiative.

“The basic criticism that I received was that I was a girl, and girls don’t talk like this or on a topic like this. People think it it’s only trans community and it has nothing to do with sexuality. First, I was using the word, ‘hermaphrodite’ but nobody took it seriously because it was too formal or scientific. Then I choose the word, ‘intersex’ because Pakistani public is much attracted to anything that is related to the word, ‘sex’. As they always consider this word in ‘intimacy sex’ not the gender sex. The clicks started to increase gradually. The first motive was to create awareness, which was unbelievably hard.” Further, explains Ajmal.

“There was no support from my family even when I started to wear hijab, and they thought someone has brainwashed me. So, getting to know that I am writing about such bold topics and raising my voice to create awareness, the support was out of the question. But with the passage of time, my mother started to support me a lot, a lot more than my father.” Says Ajmal.

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Hira Nazir is a full-time medical student and a part-time writer from Peshawar, also a blogger and a poet. “I want to be known as someone with a diverse array of passions.” Says Hira.

She loves the sunset, books, pretty socks, stationary, long walks, green tea, empty corridors & early mornings.

“I have written for 14 years till now & have always been secretly wishing to be New York times’ bestseller author. I own a book club; a spoken word organization & I am a part of many writing forums including Dastaan & YWWF. Medicine is my profession & literature (writing) is my passion, I have not yet learned the art of talking about my own self.” Explains Nazir.

“Poetry & Instagram are not connected for me. I have been writing since the age of 7. I joined Instagram around in 2013. However, Instagram proved to be a good platform for having larger viewership & reaching out more people.” States Nazir

She says “Online world is a strange place. It has its pros & cons. Where at one side, the newcomers have to struggle a lot to make an impact, the old ones/already familiar ones are not ready to share the stage & help others & hence so, the element of jealousy & unhealthy

competitive air would increase. Moreover, the mishaps of getting your work & ideas stolen, all copyrights are broken & not being credited enough are also very commonly faced.”

Talking about her opportunities Nazir says “I got many opportunities while being in the virtual world and all of them helped me to improve my skills and polish my abilities. I got to collaborate with so many other writers, be a part of many events, mentor the young coming ones, give fellowship programs, do freelancing & so many other exciting opportunities came my way.”

“Well, criticism for the sake of criticism kills a writer’s creativity, however, healthy criticism always helps you improve your work. There are certain people who would always find ways to bring you down however constructive criticism helps you learn and grow. We just have to get benefit from the good one and have to ignore the bad one. I improved a lot based upon the critique that I received.” talking her experience about criticism Nazir States.

“My family has always been supportive towards my endeavors especially my mom & my sister; both of them have always pushed me so much even though none in my family is remotely related to writing & literature. However, the unconditional support & encouragement that I got from them has always kept me moving. My social circle has been always encouraging including my friends, it is their constant motivation that makes me do bigger things in life!” Claims Nazir.
Shah Zaib Anwar Siddiqui
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Shah Zaib Anwar Siddiqui is a Media Sciences student from Karachi, He is an amateur Photographer and an Instagrammer.

“When I was 12, I started using the Internet, I made a Facebook account, it’s my habit to fulfill all the requirements which are needed to make an account, I started checking every option which made me happy. Then I made an Instagram account and started following some random accounts, I saw a lot of good images on Instagram, that’s how it was possible to take all the images. I kept on searching on the Internet and learned from there.” States Anwar.

Explaining his journey of becoming an amateur Photography Shah Zaib says “I have done a short course in photography, then my vision was becoming clearer day by day, When I hear a single word that I don’t know what it means, I spend hours to learn about it from the Internet. From there I thought I should make short videos/films, I started searching where to learn I took the admission in Iqra University, which now I’m a proud media student and want to be a photographer and filmmaker, there are a lot of things that I still don’t know, this process of learning will continue till I die.”

“At first when I started taking pictures nobody liked my pictures, people just come and point out a minor mistake on my images, they don’t look what I have taken in the pictures, but I keep on looking, searching, learning, I became pro at phone photography, then I realized that a phone can’t take you to a professional level, it took me 5 years to save money and buy a high-end camera.” Anwar Further Stated.

“Family always supports me, especially my mom, she believes in me as a good person, that’s enough of I want right now.” Says Anwar.

 

Saher Touqeer Abbasi
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Saher Touqeer Abbasi is a professional Animator and a Photographer from Islamabad. She currently works at Orenda as an animator. She is one of the famous female photographers from Pakistan on Instagram. She Joined Instagram 5 years ago getting inspired from many other female photographers.

“I was fascinated by the fact that you can really make ordinary things look extraordinary through your unique perspective. I didn’t have a camera at that time so I started taking pictures from my phone and started posting them online. The feedback I got was amazing so there has been no stopping ever since.” Says Abbasi.

Talking about her hard times Abbasi says “There are a lot of people out there who will appreciate your work but there also are some who discourage you and make fun of you. There were people who stole my pictures and posted them without any credit or appreciation. That used to be a big disappointment in the beginning but I soon realized that people can steal your pictures but they can’t your brain or ideas. They can never be you or think about things the way you do. So you should keep doing your thing and not care much about negative people.”

Talking about social media and her recognition through Instagram Abbasi states “Social media is a very vast space and really connects you with the rest of the world. I got to work on a lot of animation as well as photography projects for not only local start-ups and businesses but have also worked with a Dubai-based company. I made stop-motion animations for them. They discovered me through Instagram.”

“Alhamdulillah, I feel very lucky to have faced very less negative or destructive criticism. Most of the time people leave very kind comments on my work and that is what really keeps me going. A little kindness goes a long way.” Claims Abbasi.

“My sister and my best friend have been my biggest support and appreciated me throughout. I have always aimed to stay away from negative things and focus more on the positive and as a result, I always got a positive response from almost anyone who has seen my work whether it be family, friends or people who don’t know me in person but follow me on social media.” Further states Saher.

Azeema Ilyas
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Azeema Ilyas is an amateur photographer from Peshawar, Pakistan. She uses Instagram to showcase her work, as well as is the co-founder of Instagram Community, Peshawar. She is a State Alumna and is studying Defense and Diplomatic Studies from Fatima Jinnah Women University.

Talking about the beginning of her journey Azeema Says “I always had a passion for photography. Back when we had reel cameras, my sister, who was pretty self-obsessed would buy reels and ask me to take photos for her. We would use the whole reel clicking away photos in super filmy poses. In 2007 one of my cousins sent us a digital camera, I would take it around all the time and take photos of random silly things. My laptop was full of such photos.”

“In 2011, my father bought us our first DSLR because my sister was taking photography as her minor. After that, I became the official photographer at the family events. In 2013 during my entry tests days, I made an Instagram account to kill boredom. But I would use it to post random photos. I never had the confidence to share my photographs there because, to be honest, every photographer I followed was so good, when I would look at their work I would think about how bad my photography skills are.” Explains Ilyas.

“I befriended Ibrahim Zauq through Instagram, he saw few of the photographs I had taken and encouraged me to start posting my work on Instagram. It started from there. I started clicking more, got to meet all the Instagrammers I was inspired from, learned A LOT from them and improved my photography to the level that today I can confidently say that I am a photographer.” Stated Ilyas.

Talking about her Instagram experience Ilyas says “Through Instagram, I found people who inspired me in many ways and help me become a better human. However, what I dislike the most about online spaces is that how some people think that since you are out there, they have the right to pass judgments on you, mock you or harass you in any way. It is severe in a case when you have a certain standing among people. I get many DMs with people calling me names because I didn’t reply to their comment or accepted their friendship request or have the conversation with them. People think just because someone has a public account, it means they are free and available for everyone and that they owe them something. It gets on my nerves sometimes like nothing and then I just distance myself from Instagram.”

“I got to work on projects with esteemed organizations like Archaeology Department of Khyber Pukhtoonkhwa, World Bank Group, Peshawar 2.0, Heritage Foundation of Pakistan. I got to represent Instagram Community Peshawar at the first Art Tech Festival. Instagram basically opened a lot of doors for me.” Claims Ilyas.

“When you are posting your work online, you get people from very diverse backgrounds with very diverse perspective to critique your work and it is what helped me in improving my work. I have faced a lot of criticism with things like someone telling me that they don’t even consider me a photographer. Initially, it broke me but I believe it was important for me to face such harsh criticism because it is what made me who I am today.” Explaining the criticism Says Ilyas.

“My parents especially my mother has always been very supportive of me. Even though I belong to a Pukhtoon family, I did not face the problems that normally girls in Pukhtoon families face. When I took to the streets for photography, my mom was always there by my side, go around the city with me while I clicked photos.” Says Ilyas.

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Everything has its pros and cons but the internet is the platform that has provided the place for many youngsters of Pakistan to showcase their talent and prove their identity around the world.

“You can make a building out of hay.”

Balochistan – The Scariest Place

I always received questions on social media from people who lived in other provinces of Pakistan asking me weird stuff about the province I live in. Like “Oh so you are from Balochistan, so do you guys have Wi-Fi there?” Dude, how am I online then!

I ignored such questions because I thought it is just the people who live in the fantasy world of Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and knows nothing about the real world out there. Nevertheless, people’s ignorance really came to the fore when I joined university in the capital of Pakistan.

The journey started when on the first day of my university, I went to the administration office to receive my university student card. The women in the administration office who was distributing cards asked me “where I was from?” because I looked different. I told her “I’m from Balochistan”. She looked at me “Oh so is Balochistan a part of Pakistan?” I was utterly shocked at what kind of question is this. I stammered “Yes”.

All she said was “okay don’t mind I was just checking.” I did not get her point of what does that word “Checking” meant there. I found that later when I properly joined university and face more pathetic questions like
“Oh so does people kill each other there?”

well then I might be a ghost here!

“Why do you guys want to be separated from Pakistan?”
like seriously, who says!

“OMG how did they let you come to another city all the way from that backward province?”
No comments!

“Wait so you are not Baloch? Then why are you from Balochistan?”
why you no watch TV girl!

“So you guys hear bomb blast and stuff. How do you live there?”
well you might have mistaken Afghanistan for Balochistan!

“I have heard all the terrorist organizations live there, why you keep them?”
Well what can I say we have plenty of space, you know, being the largest province area wise!

“So you came here because there are no universities?”
Someone please kill me!

At first, I felt irritated and answered the questions anyway. I felt alien living alone in the new city, which these questions made more difficult. Sometimes they asked me the same questions and sometimes there was a new version to their weirdness.

Nevertheless, the irritation turned in to pity soon when one day I met a friend who had a presentation on cultural show, where her group had to perform the Sindhi culture. She asked me for help I told her I would help her. She showed me the material she had collected; I got confused and asked her again if which culture she has to perform and she again told me it is Sindhi. I was devastated when I saw the material she had collected seemed to depict Punjabi Culture.

Her knowledge about culture made me feel terrible, and that was where I knew that Balochistan is not the only place they know nothing about but they do not know their own roots. Who is on the fault? Parents, Society and Media. The three pillars of the modern age on whom kids these days rely on and get their information. How would kids know about their roots when their parents themselves do not know about what culture they belong to and how enrich our culture is?

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Pakistan is one of the countries who have the deepest, enriched and colorful culture and needs no words to describe. In this busy day life where people barely find free time and in that free time their source of entertainment are all type of media, whether its TV, Radio or connection to social media. These mediums are not fulfilling their duties, as they are the only source of information for new generation. The duty of reviving our long-lost culture falls on the shoulders of media.

I miss the time when PTV national used to have specific slots for people of all cultures and provided the relevant information. Everyone knew what our regional languages are and what thing belongs to what culture. Our News channels brings in the news, which benefit them in terms of ratings and social media engagement metrics. Our TV channels only play dramas, which bring in the ratings and advertisements’.

TV is only source of passing time for consumers and source of money for marketers. It is a pity that our new generation knows nothing about its culture and we are letting our culture die. People, who live in the same country, share the same sentiments for their country but knows nothing about what is happening in the neighboring province.

How can we say we will make this country proud and give it the place it worth is when we do not have proper knowledge about the surroundings of our country?

Faryal Jogezai

Also published on Daily Pakistan.

Book Review: Burnt Shadows by Kamila Shamsie

A novel with great scope ranging over a vast sweep of modern history, written with great warmth and understanding.The novel describes three sections, first is in 1945 Hiroko Tanaka has become engaged to Konrad Weiss, a German living in Nagasaki. He is killed by the atomic bomb tragedy of Nagasaki and she is injured. Following her recovery, after 2 years she goes to India to see Konrad’s sister Ilse, who is married to an Englishman, James Burton who is a lawyer and rather upper middle class. Where Hiroko meets one of James Burton’s employees Sajjad Ashraf. They fall in love and marry; travel from Dehli to Karachi after partition.

The second part moves to Pakistan in the early 1980s. The story here revolves around Sajjad and Hiroko again and their teenage son Raza and James and Ilse’s son Harry, who is working for the CIA.

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The final section is set just after 9/11. Harry and Raza are working together in Afghanistan for a private security company, whilst Ilse and Hiroko are in New York. Harry’s daughter Kim plays a central role.

A novel which seeks to cover the historic tragedies like the dropping of the atomic bomb on Nagasaki, the end of British empire, partition of subcontinent, the cold war of Soviet Union, the CIA supporting the mujahedeen, 9/11, the Taliban, the fear of terrorism and the war in Afghanistan. The themes run around love, family, trust and betrayal, friendship, religion and a clash of cultures. The novel leaves a deep impact on the reader, with emotions ranging from tears and sorrow to anger.

An excerpt from the book: “…countries like yours they always fight wars, but always somewhere else. The disease always happens somewhere else. It’s why you fight more wars than anyone else; because you understand war least of all.”

Book review: The Upstairs Wife: An Intimate History of Pakistan by Rafia Zakaria

The Upstairs Wife is a wholesome narrative of Pakistan and life in Pakistan, more so of life in Karachi, via the eyes of a 3rd generation. It is a memoir of Pakistan’s unsettled history and a family’s polygamist marriage. The women’s stories of their uncertain future woven with the transparent selectivity of history of Pakistan from 1947. The Upstairs Wife gives context to the life of women behind the walls of a middle class Muslim home in one of Pakistan’s great cities, where men make the decisions and women accept the consequences.

The book is a tapestry of histories of the writer’s family, of her grandparents, Said and Suraya. Who migrated from Bombay, builds a life in Karachi, of her parents’ lives, of her own childhood. Moreover, of Aunt Amina who is given in marriage by a contract negotiated by her male relatives, who did not think to inquire about the possibility of her spouse acquiring a second wife. Her Husband Sohail marries against her wishes with another woman, and when Amina tries to return in protest, she is sent back to the husband who divides his time religiously between the upstairs and downstairs wives. Amina is forced to live a half-married, sequestered into the upstairs portion of the house and entitled to only half of her husband’s time and attention.

The book has a non-linear nature of the narrative, jumping around in time from snapshots of Pakistan’s history intertwined with family history in an episodic manner of approach which makes the book work more precious, it sets the reader in a roller-coaster jump from highlight to highlight to reminisce over the past. The book is the perfect and devastating blend of tender and brutal.

LET US BE WHO WE ARE

Mirror, mirror on the wall who is the fairest of them all?

Sara get up and brush your teeth, you have school tomorrow so sleep early. Mansha told her 6 years old daughter while taking the remote to turn the TV off where Evil Queen was still ordering her magic mirror to show her the fairest person. After Mansha tucked Sara in her bed to sleep, she turned the TV on while waiting for her husband to be home soon. When she turned the TV on it was still the same cartoon channel where now the Evil Queen was now plotting to kill Snow White because she was fairer then her.

She changed to another entertainment channel where an ad was playing telling all the women out there that they need to use their cream to gain confidence by getting fairer, then she skipped to another channel where again a fairness cream ad was playing telling how a problem of having dark complexion can be lured away in only a week by using their cream, as if dark complexion was a disease that needed to be cured as soon as possible.

Mansha getting annoyed by all the fairness creams ads turned the TV off and took a magazine that was lying on the coffee table. The tagline on the cover of the magazine said “BE WHO YOU ARE”. Mansha felt confident in the tagline and flipped the page to read further, on the first page what she saw was a make-up ad with the tagline “BE BEAUTIFUL”, she ignored the ad and flipped through some pages to read any article and what she found was “Don’t like being fat here are 7 ways to help you get slim”.

Mansha getting annoyed flipped through some more pages and there it was again “Get rid of the dark skin here are natural tips to get fair and smooth skin”. Mansha was a dark skinned woman in her 30’s began reading the article as deep down she also had raised an urge to be the snow-white in her story, to be the Fairest of all.

No matter how hard you try to be yourself the airbrushed and photo-shopped models and celebrities making the front page of magazines and newspapers, TV and social media platforms buzzing with news of how flawlessly beautiful this celebrity is and how fair skin she is. The advertising agencies, fashion and media industries has turned the coins a long time ago and has changed the beauty standards of this world.
The highlighted part is where they had destroyed the self-image of females from teenage girls to older women, who strive hard to meet that beauty standard made up by the advertising agencies. If you are black you are considered ugly so the lighter skin you have the more you are beautiful, the countless ad campaigns in the shape of stories are subconsciously fixed in our minds.

We’re provided an endless stream of beauty products which tell us what we need to “fix” in ourselves from our hair, our complexion, our height and our shape. The concept of having white skin has prevailed to an extension where we are subsequently persuaded by ads that if we need to have flawless skin in order to compete with the women in our lives for success and love.

The prejudice about the skin color had existed since a long time in our society but what is it that made that skin color to be the only wall around us which protects us are the Advertising agencies and Fashion Industries. Once that wall is constructed all we do is keep plastering and white-washing it with all the beauty products and tips.

To make your face look in a shape that is defined as perfect young girls go to an extent of crush-diet and which is why we see so many young girls lying in hospital beds as a result of anorexia as they tortured their body into being slim, girls disfiguring their faces to make it look more model-like. In other cases, when they can’t reach that beauty standard they fell into depression which could lead to more severe mental cases.

According to specialists, in efforts for long-lasting beauty women are burning their skin from noxious acid peels and even suffering life-threatening side effects from steroidal creams. They are using lesser remedies for fair and fresh skin which contain large amounts of ammonia and hydrogen peroxide that can cause irritation, redness and skin ulcers.

For instant beauty girls bleach their skin, rubbing steroids and acids on their faces to get a fair skin overnight and compete in the beauty world. These fairness creams contain irreparable damage like acne, facial hair and wipe off epidermis completely, making the skin more vulnerable to ultraviolet rays of the sun. To make themselves more beautiful, more deserving and gain confident, many girls consult dermatologists to enhance their skin tone.

The mindset of the girls is created in a way that they should rule the world of fantasy and fable. Because all the fairy tales, requires the heroine to be the SNOW WHITE. The only way for the cure this hideous complexion complex, we need to be conscious of our discriminatory attitudes and teach our girls to wear their skin with pride because that it is the image God has designed for them. Each one of us beautiful and equal.

As Khalil Gibran said “People of Orphalese beauty is life when life unveils her holy face. But you are life and you are the veil. Beauty is eternity gazing itself in the mirror. But you are eternity and you are the mirror.”

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